The first was for our niece and she and her groom chose to be married on the beach in Maine. Her aunt conducted the service. The day was perfect, the guests all so happy to be there to help launch this newly married couple. The reception was a terrific party for all.
The second wedding was in Chicago at a much more formal setting. The celebration reflected the young couple and their love for each other. The dresses, the flowers, the reception….all were just perfect. And again, the ceremony itself was conducted by our nephew's godfather so he had a very personal history with the groom andn it was reflected in his remarks.
Then, most recently, we celebrated with family at a farm house in Maine. Country setting, beautiful weather, unique celebration that reflected this young couple's love perfectly. Here, again that personal touch, the groom's aunt pronounced them man and wife.
Weddings have changed in the 45+ years since Dave and I walked down the aisle. From what we've seen I loved the "new" way of doing things. The more personal touches, the confidence with which the bride and groom plan their special days. They are a bit more mature than we were when we married (we were still in college) and maybe that helps them make decisions and selections that reflect their personalities and their individuality.
Whatever…..we were happy to be included in the gatherings that sent these three off onto this adventure called marriage. There will be ups and downs…..but we welcome them all to the ride!
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